Monthly Archives: January 2012

The Elephant in the room, I want to talk about Toby

I really want to talk about Toby, not so much about how he died but I don’t mind talking about that either. I really want you to ask me not ‘How are you?’ but ‘How are you coping at the … Continue reading

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Message to depressed or suicidal young men

I have blogged about my loss and there is a personal journey to be lived, where I grieve and remember my son, and find out how to live this new, changed life. I am not the type of person to … Continue reading

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How can I turn loss into inspiration

I am aware that I don’t want the overriding theme of my life to be beareavement and suicide, however I do feel that I can use my pain to help others. To help other parents, to help people understand what … Continue reading

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